Maksimova" at 13:10 on Radio Russia!
Subject: Enfant Terrible.
Today we will talk about educational methods. Not long ago, a video was circulated online in which a three-year-old girl is seen pulling her mother's hair because she did not buy her a toy. It was a real fight: the child was hanging on by the hair and pulled the parent's head to the ground. And as soon as she grabbed the children's stubborn hands, her daughter broke free and the fight began again - with hysteria and screams. The public responded to the video very warmly.
It is impossible to imagine such a story in a Russian village of the 19th century. Yes, and also in the twentieth century. why? If you ask such a question to your grandparents, they will probably answer that they will get the first number for such behavior. I emphasize that I am in no way advocating physical punishment now. The purpose of this program is to understand where such pedagogical neglect comes from and what to do about it?
Well, going back to the 19th century, I can't help but remember that such disgusting children were called in French a terrible child -. "Terrible child" These are spoiled, capricious and restless children, whose behavior caused concern to others. Today, psychologists associate this behavior with a need for attention, an inability to communicate, testing the limits of what is permissible, age-related crises (for example, the three-year-old crisis) or attention deficit disorder. Or maybe the child-centered education system is to blame - this is when the child becomes a central value in the family, and his needs, desires and interests are placed higher than other family members.
Opinions:
Vyacheslav Lebedev - psychophysiologist, teacher at the Faculty of Psychology of Moscow University, founder of the Children's Neuro-Center.
Close up wall. Teacher psychologist, child neuropsychologist, clinical psychologist;
Irina Monkova. Vice President of the National Association of Experts in Business Ethics, Manners and Protocol;
Yuta is a singer, an honored artist of Russia.