There is an observation that when a person changes, his environment changes. It varies in two ways:
"People with whom you have strong ties, who value you, begin to change their ways because you have changed. Just to keep in touch with you. It happens without noticing and unconsciously. This can be represented in the metaphor of gears: if suddenly one gear in the system has a greater height between the teeth, then the rest, well, of course their track will also work if, only the system will work. that.
"Those who couldn't fit in with the new you leaving because they have nothing else to "catch" you with. And newcomers come, with whom they have something.
This is how the field changes. But there is one trap here: if you change to change others, you will not succeed. You need to change for yourself and in relation to yourself. Changing the environment is a side effect. There is no point in waiting and demanding changes from others. If you don't like something about others, then it's your choice whether to stay close to them or stay away.
🍀 Nina Robstein.