A mature position in relationships.
I don't expect us to have no problems. I expect that we will solve them together, and not turn each other into adversaries.
I don't think for my partner and I don't base accusations on assumptions. I ask questions, listen and rely on facts.
I accept that we all have hard days, bad moods and hard times. We don't always have to be a resource to stay close.
In difficult moments, we do not rush to destroy what we have built together. We try to understand each other, find a way out and strengthen our relationship.
During a conflict, we don't fight each other. We are together against the problem, not against each other.
If I don't like something, I don't limit myself to criticism. I am ready to discuss alternatives and participate in finding a solution.
We are both responsible for the relationship. We are not looking for someone to blame, we are not putting everything on one person, but we are honestly looking at our contribution to what is happening.
A mature relationship is not when two people never fight. It's when even in moments of disagreement they don't forget that they chose to be on the same side.