Be smarter

Know how to release the ones you love in time too. This is the great law of non-attachment. When you hold on to a person out of fear of losing your love, you lose more. Take a deep breath and let everyone be responsible for their life.

Everyone belongs only to himself.

Never try to change another person. Take it as it is, we're all different, but that's the beauty of it.

What brings people closer are differences, not false compromises, or even a shared past. What brings people together is the honest enjoyment of difference. When you're not trying to change someone, convince someone or push them desperately with advice. When you just interact with a person - like reading a book - you agree with some things, not others, but it's still so interesting, elegant and easy that you can't put it down. Unfortunately, to understand such basic things, one has to pay a heavy price - losing precious people.

Therefore, be wiser.