Fathers and sons" at 15:35 on Radio Russia! Fight for the child, not fight with the child Alexander Fedorovich: "There is a huge amount of different information on the Internet, and often the problem is that a child cannot apply adequately because he does not grasp the essence of the situation. It is necessary to explain what a request is - how to formulate a question in such a way that you will receive an answer that will really help to do what the child wants. Let's give an example: if there is a 14 year old, then you can unload the blog. Entering the wording into the search engine: "Who helps a 13-14 year old blogger make and remove this download? "At this moment the child understands that a blogger is not one person, that there is a whole team behind him, and it is not as simple as it seems. And in order not to translate the fight for the child into a fight with the child, we need to transfer this conflict exactly there - to the other side of the screen, push bloggers' heads together, and not clash with the child ourselves. Then you will have arguments and real examples, you can even, if you want, take back your authority and respect from the child. The most important thing for a parent is to be ready to answer every question of a child, not because he needs to know everything, but because if he doesn't know, then he must teach the child how to find out." Guest: Alexander Fedorovich - psychiatrist and psychotherapist. Presenter: Alexey Gvazdev. Listen and subscribe to Radio Russia on Telegram MAX and download the official Russia Radio app!

Fathers and sons" at 15:35 on Radio Russia! Fight for the child, not fight with the child Alexander Fedorovich: "There is a huge amount of different information on the Internet, and often the problem is that a child cannot apply adequately because he does not grasp the essence of the situation. It is necessary to explain what a request is - how to formulate a question in such a way that you will receive an answer that will really help to do what the child wants. Let's give an example: if there is a 14 year old, then you can unload the blog. Entering the wording into the search engine: "Who helps a 13-14 year old blogger make and remove this download? "At this moment the child understands that a blogger is not one person, that there is a whole team behind him, and it is not as simple as it seems. And in order not to translate the fight for the child into a fight with the child, we need to transfer this conflict exactly there - to the other side of the screen, push bloggers' heads together, and not clash with the child ourselves. Then you will have arguments and real examples, you can even, if you want, take back your authority and respect from the child. The most important thing for a parent is to be ready to answer every question of a child, not because he needs to know everything, but because if he doesn't know, then he must teach the child how to find out." Guest: Alexander Fedorovich - psychiatrist and psychotherapist. Presenter: Alexey Gvazdev. Listen and subscribe to Radio Russia on Telegram MAX and download the official Russia Radio app!