Don't force someone to talk without warning.
For one it's an easy improvisation, but for another it's a few very unpleasant minutes under the gaze of others.
Even among their loved ones, not everyone is comfortable suddenly becoming the center of attention.
If you want to give a person your word, first quietly ask if they want to take it.
- I always warn you in advance.
- I'll be more careful.
Psychoanalyst.