Don't appease people by force "ok, hug already".
"Stop raging."
"You're family, forget it" Sometimes conflict really takes time. It may be important for a person to first relax, sort out feelings or understand if he wants to continue communication at all. Reconciliation, pushed for the sake of general peace, does not always solve the problem. - I am not in a hurry for others to put up with it psychoanalyst.