Tips that will strengthen you mentally You don't need things to get along in a certain way to be happy. You can be happy here and now. You don't have to strive to think "positive". Be calm about negative thoughts, but choose a middle ground between positive and negative. Daily walks of at least half an hour are the solution to 80% of your worries. In times of uncertainty and fear, you need to act. Don't think and wait for something better to come along, but start doing something. Leave if this was helpful! Psychoanalyst.