The Importance of Honesty (Even in Your Failures) In Tarek's narration, we learn a profound lesson about honesty and self-responsibility. When Tariq fled from the presence of Amir al-Mu'minin (Imam Ali) and sought refuge with Muawiya, Muawiya taunted him. Instead of making excuses or blaming others, Tariq responded with complete honesty: "It is not because of Ali's badness and your goodness; it is because of our badness that we could not bear Ali's goodness. The lesson: Tariq didn't lie to himself. He admitted that the fault was his incompetence. Because he was honest about his own failure, Imam Ali (a.s.) S.) said later that if Tariq had been killed there, he would have been a martyr. This is in contrast to those who become extreme in their beliefs, eventually fall into negligence, and then - instead of admitting their shortcomings - begin to blame and reject everything they once believed in. True integrity means owning your mistakes and not deceiving yourself. Practical Islam - Said Samer Hakim.