A tit in the hand is better a tit in the hand than a nightingale in the forest. Be happy with what you have. We like to devalue our real lives for beautiful, completely empty fantasies. Your restless mind constantly paints idealized pictures of the future, where you are incredibly successful or in an impeccable relationship. This mythical nightingale in the forest just silently drains all your energy. The thirst to possess something that does not exist makes you trample into the mud the real thing that you already hold in your hands. Have a nice day Indian Lotus.