Someone from around says with a sigh: "You have become too harsh and selfish!" what will you do
š„ - I'll stop it right now: "My boundaries are not selfish, get used to it."
š„° - I will feel ashamed, I will start apologizing guiltily and try to feel comfortable.
š - I will ask where they issue tags for ideal softness.
ļø - I will answer exactly: "I am only protecting my interests."